clovery

till now, then i realised wat exactly conflict is...
*my definition*
~something to be left unsaid when all feels the same towards each other(in a negative way)~

wanyi and people had been telling me i am not suitable to live in conflicts.
i'm juz not up to somebody else to fight with...
and now i think its true.

all along i think nothing is a problem.
as long we communicate, we are able to solve it.
to me problems are just problems.
i don't see it as conflicts.
maybe i was too naive or am i still ? ....

one of Chan's lecture he mentioned aboutt conflicts.
saying that we have to live in e world of conflicts.
it helps people to improve and strive harder to outWIT, outWIN, outPLAY others
those whom think conflicts is not their cup of tea shall not succeed.
i must admit it is true in some way.
but why can't people just work amicably ?
why ? ....
its not that i can't 'fight', is that i don't wish to.
understand ?
dun take me for granted, purleease....

posted by clovery @ 1:49 PM